20 things I learned after a failed relationship




1. I’m good enough.

2. Never beg someone for a spot in their life.

3. My worth isn’t dependent on someone else’s view.

4. If a man loves you, he will do anything to keep you.

5. Mental abuse counts as abuse.

6. No means no, also when you’re in a relationship with the one you’re saying no to.

7. Don’t have too much expectations.

8. Engage in a relationship when you’re really in love, not when you feel needy.

9. People don’t change.

10. If he’s not ready, you won’t change that.

11. If he truly loves you, he won’t let you go.

12. Anyone can look you in the eye and tell you they love you but not mean it. Let them show love. Don’t let them convince you with words.

13.  Love yourself. It will help you through a lot and make important decisions. It will help you get away before it’s too late.

14. If he loves alcohol or drugs more than you, get out!

15. Don’t be dependent on your emotional needs towards others.

16. Learn to forgive. In order to move forward, you need to forgive even if that person caused you so much pain.

17. The relationship failed. This doesn’t mean I’m a failure.

18. Ask more questions and allow yourself the time to get to know someone well enough before you start a relationship.

19. Don’t rush yourself to get to the next milestone.

20. Time heals everything.


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